Don't be a Stuck-in-the Mud~Be a Trudge-in-the-Mud

Ugh! It's Time to Put the Muck Boots On and Start Trudging

 I laughed the first time I heard a friend say, "Here we go....trudging the road of happy destiny."

Something about the words trudging and happy destiny didn't fit in the same sentence and yet at the very same time it was unsettling that it was a perfect fit. 

When Things Get Tough, the Tough Get Trudging 

Trudge isn't a word you hear used much today, but you can imagine the feeling of trudging--walking heavily, and firmly, as when weary, or through mud--just like it sounds, as in trudging through drudgery. 

At first the image of trudging towards your happy destiny seems at odds with itself, but is it? When you think about it, it's a lot of work figuring out how to make relationships, careers, and life work. It can make a person downright weary.

💓 First you toil to figure out what you want, what you have to offer, and how to best go after what you want. 

💓 Then to achieve your heart's dream you must put yourself out there again and again-- despite experiencing failure, rejection, hurt feelings, pain and discouragement. 

Sounds like 'trudging on the road to happy destiny' to me.

How are you Trudging on the Road to Happy Destiny?

What's happening in your life right now?

Perhaps:

💥 You stepped into a relationship with someone, and you'd like to take it further. But the minute you went on a date things got messy and confusing. 

To get out of the muddy emotions, you need to trudge through your thoughts and feelings to figure out the best next steps on your path to your happy destiny. 

💥 You discovered a new perfect-for-you position opened in your organization. While it's great news, suddenly you feel weary from the fear and uncertainty of publicly applying for the position. 

To achieve your dream job you must trudge through updating your resume and cover letter-- and figure out how to apply for the position without upsetting your current boss in the event you fail to get the new job.

💥 You met someone who really cares about you and thinks you're wonderful. 

But right now you're in the middle of a messy divorce and you need to plod through the tedious, yucky details of separating from one person to be able to freely move on to your happy destiny.

💥 You work in a job you like but the company is in trouble. 

You love working--and you're very loyal to the company--so you're in a quandary about staying with the sinking ship or starting to look for another job now.

💥 You're trying to find your way back to the road to your happy destiny after losing a loved one or dealing with illness.

Don't Be a Stuck-in-the-Mud; Be a Trudge-in-the-Mud

Life isn't always easy. On your way to your happy destiny, you come face to face with experiences making you feel like you're slogging through mud. You get stuck. You get weary. You get discouraged.

But don't be a stuck-in-the-mud. If you let your mucky experiences stop you, they easily turn to quicksand and suck you into staying stuck for a lifetime.

These muddied junctures in life are always stressful. But if you make a conscious effort to move in the direction of your happy destiny, you'll effectively use the stressful energy to motivate you to action--and grow stronger, more capable, and more self-confident in the process.

Learn to be a trudge-in-the-mud who moves toward freedom and a happy destiny.

💙 Accept your path can get muddied and you can get weary along the way.

💚 Acknowledge you'll still need to slog your way out of the muck, but you will be moving toward your happy destination.

💛 Keep moving toward your dreams and taking steps that open up opportunities, possibilities and engagement in your life.

No one's path to their happy destiny is an easy one. When you set your eyes on what you want you still must overcome the fear of putting yourself out there as well as overcome the obstacles to achieving your dreams.

Keep on Trudging

Your job in life is to take steps toward what you want, without concern for the outcome. As you step into life some doors will open and some doors will close. No matter. Keep taking those steps and walking through the open doors. And don't be afraid of the mud.

Be courageous and diligent in meeting life's challenges. Step into your life with your muck boots on--and keep on trudging. 

Keep on Dancing

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For more than 35 years, Susan Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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