Tuesday, January 7, 2025

The Secret to Stop Procrastinating: Begin Simply, and Simply Begin

 



"Eat a live frog first thing in the morning and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day."
Mark Twain


Okay, come clean. What's the thing you've been thinking you need to do you just haven't gotten around to doing?

Come on, you know what it is!  It's the very thing~ that if you did it~ it would have a great impact in the way your life worked, or  would help you achieve a life goal, or help you live your life mission. Sometimes it's just something that would make your day-to-day life easier.

The Anticipation is Killing Me!

The thing is, you know there is something on your mind that continues to show up for brief visits every morning, weekend or evening before it disappears as you return to your work, or other such distractions.  And you also know, until you take care of it, it will continue to irritate you.

Years ago a cartoon featured the lovable cat, Garfield, considering the task of getting out to exercise. He thinks, "I probably should get up and exercise, but my feet will start to hurt and my heart will pound. I'll get out of breath, start to sweat, and I won't be able to make it back home. Exercise isn't so bad," he says, "But the anticipation is killing me!"

Like Garfield, the thing you need to do probably isn't so bad, but the anticipation is killing you! That small first step could potentially have a large impact on your life so you over-think it. The anticipation leads to procrastination, killing your motivation to take a step.



Begin Simply, and Simply Begin

To overcome the inertia to taking the first step, begin simply, and simply begin! Consider Mark Twain's philosophy:
"Eat a live frog first thing in the morning and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day."

Brian Tracy in his book, 'Eat That Frog!', plays off Twain's quirky quip to create 21 ways to stop procrastinating. Tracy equates your 'frog' to your biggest, most important task, the one likeliest to have the greatest positive impact on your life---yes, the very THING we've been talking about!

Tracy goes on to lay down the first two rules of 'frog eating'

'If you have to eat two frogs, eat the ugliest one first.'
'If you have to eat a live frog at all, it doesn't pay to sit and look at it for very  long.'
Apply the Rule of Frog

Basically, the rule of frog says stop anticipating, and start each day by doing the most important thing that needs doing before you do anything else. Don't sit around thinking about taking that first bite of frog. Bite into the hardest, ugliest task you've been avoiding first thing in the morning ~ and do it every morning.



Leap Frog Your Way to a Satisfying, Productive Life


Begin simply: make a list of 'frogs'. Then simply begin to jump through those self-imposed hoops, leap frogging your way each and every morning to a more satisfying and productive life.

 Why wait to get started? Jump in NOW. Choose something from the list  below...or use the list to jump start your own list.




Frogs to Eat First Thing in the Morning


Make a list of your frogs. Choose an ugly one.
Make that phone call.
Start that school application.
Drive to the Credit Union. Set up Automatic Deposit.
Ask for Help. Pick up the phone. Send the e-mail. Write the grant.
Organize your tax documents. Call for help. Pay your taxes.
Practice learning a new technology skill.
Spend one hour in language lab. Pass the class.
Make a dentist appointment. Put your self-care first.
Make a doctor appointment. Put your self-care first.
Call a sick friend.
Write a letter to someone in need.
Set up a retirement savings account. Start contributing.
Increase the amount contributed to your retirement savings account.
Exercise
Go to the gym.
Find a new job.
Begin reworking your resume.
Reach out to your business network for job leads.
Research retirement options.
Research school options.
Actively Manage Finances.
Make and Maintain Contact with Good Friends.
Find a Mate. Put yourself in the environment where you'll meet potential mates.






Monday, January 6, 2025

Lightarted Living: Heal Your World

Lightarted Living: Heal Your World:   

Heal Your World

 


Heal Your World

Do not be afraid of what's before you;
Do your part to make your world right.

Choose your path according to your highest wishes;
Speak the words you long to hear;
Be the change you want to see;
Reach for the most satisfying and meaningful life daily.

Believe in your ability to make a difference 
in your and other's lives each day;
Choose to turn obstacles into challenges;
Step into positive action when you're ready--
and sometimes when you're not.



Everything is (Secretly) Okay!

Whatever it is that's holding you back
or making you fearful--

Let it Go.

When self-doubt gets the better of you,
or when you need to calm your racing mind,
recite this mantra:

Everything is (secretly) okay

No matter the situation 
and no matter the outcome, 
everything is (secretly) okay.
Always.
Every time.





Cutting Through the Fear and Doubt

At first this mantra may seem odd,
but the longer you use it
to get you through 
 times of fear and doubt
the more you'll come to understand
the brilliance of this (secret) saying
to help you find your calm and strength, and
to help you to move forward with confidence.





Out of the Mouth of Babes

This mantra originated with a 10 year old boy 25 years ago. 

In the middle of a counseling session, the boy beckoned
for his counselor to come closer as
he whispered into the counselor's ear: 
"Everything is (secretly) okay!"

Let us be as wise as that 10 year old boy.


Nurture Your Soul


Heal Your World

 


Heal Your World

Do not be afraid of what's before you;
Do your part to make your world right.

Choose your path according to your highest wishes;
Speak the words you long to hear;
Be the change you want to see;
Reach for the most satisfying and meaningful life daily.

Believe in your ability to make a difference 
in your and other's lives each day;
Choose to turn obstacles into challenges;
Step into positive action when you're ready--
and sometimes when you're not.



Everything is (Secretly) Okay!

Whatever it is that's holding you back
or making you fearful--

Let it Go.

When self-doubt gets the better of you,
or when you need to calm your racing mind,
recite this mantra:

Everything is (secretly) okay

No matter the situation 
and no matter the outcome, 
everything is (secretly) okay.
Always.
Every time.





Cutting Through the Fear and Doubt

At first this mantra may seem odd,
but the longer you use it
to get you through 
 times of fear and doubt
the more you'll come to understand
the brilliance of this (secret) saying
to help you find your calm and strength, and
to help you to move forward with confidence.





Out of the Mouth of Babes

This mantra originated with a 10 year old boy 25 years ago. 

In the middle of a counseling session, the boy beckoned
for his counselor to come closer as
he whispered into the counselor's ear: 
"Everything is (secretly) okay!"

Let us be as wise as that 10 year old boy.


Nurture Your Soul



Friday, December 20, 2024

Lightarted Living: Let Hope Color Your Life

Lightarted Living: Let Hope Color Your Life:   

Let Hope Color Your Life

 


Hope

"Let Hope be your pulse,
Faith in every heartbeat,
Joy with every breath."

Terri Guillemets


"Hope is a strange invention-
a patent of the heart-
In unremitting action
Yet never wearing out."

Emily Dickinson 


"Hope is grief's best music."

Unknown


"Hope is putting faith to work 
when doubting would be easier."

Unknown


"The wings of hope carry us,
soaring high above 
the driving winds of life."

Ana Jacob



"Let hope color your life."

Lightarted Sue

Let Hope Color Your Life

 


Hope

"Let Hope be your pulse,
Faith in every heartbeat,
Joy with every breath."

Terri Guillemets


"Hope is a strange invention-
a patent of the heart-
In unremitting action
Yet never wearing out."

Emily Dickinson 


"Hope is grief's best music."

Unknown


"Hope is putting faith to work 
when doubting would be easier."

Unknown


"The wings of hope carry us,
soaring high above 
the driving winds of life."

Ana Jacob



"Let hope color your life."

Lightarted Sue

Monday, December 16, 2024

Lightarted Living: Sweet Dreams

Lightarted Living: Sweet Dreams:   

Sweet Dreams

 


SWEET DREAMS

When at night I go to bed
I gather visions of 
day friends in my head.

Snuggled in with these cuddly friends
I dream of fun that never ends.

Boggy men and scary things I send away;
Up in balloons they sail far, far away.

Tomorrow when I wake to a stellar day,
I'll be rested and ready 
for every good thing to come my way.

Armed with good sleep and sweet dreams
I'm ready for whatever comes my way.

Sweet Dreams

 


SWEET DREAMS

When at night I go to bed
I gather visions of 
day friends in my head.

Snuggled in with these cuddly friends
I dream of fun that never ends.

Boggy men and scary things I send away;
Up in balloons they sail far, far away.

Tomorrow when I wake to a stellar day,
I'll be rested and ready 
for every good thing to come my way.

Armed with good sleep and sweet dreams
I'm ready for whatever comes my way.


Sunday, December 15, 2024

Lightarted Living: How Our Hearts Became One

Lightarted Living: How Our Hearts Became One:  

How Our Hearts Became One

 


HOW OUR HEARTS BECAME ONE

Washed ashore in the sea of life;
Cast together in the sands of time;
All life form drifts into one.

Just as the sandy cliffs are etched 
by wind and sea
over time,
our hearts are engraved
with the lifeforce 
of one another,
collectively holding the vestige
of hopes and dreams,
leaving our heart prints
in the DNA of each other's soul.


I tenderly hold your heart 
deep in mine for all time.



How Our Hearts Became One

 


HOW OUR HEARTS BECAME ONE

Washed ashore in the sea of life;
Cast together in the sands of time;
All life form drifts into one.

Just as the sandy cliffs are etched 
by wind and sea
over time,
our hearts are engraved
with the lifeforce 
of one another,
collectively holding the vestige
of hopes and dreams,
leaving our heart prints
in the DNA of each other's soul.


I tenderly hold your heart 
deep in mine for all time.






Saturday, December 14, 2024

Lightarted Living: Life Imagined--Life Created

Lightarted Living: Life Imagined--Life Created:  

Life Imagined--Life Created

 



Standing at the Precipice of Life

At the celestial diving board
we look over the edge
contemplating our next life
ready to choose our 
next family and adventure
in this eternal cycle of life.

Every ending is a beginning 
freeing us to create 
the next part of our story.

It is never to late or too early
to let your soul dream of
better days ahead 
and to create a vision
of the adventure you desire now.

Our dreams are our spirit's secret sauce 
that shapes our fate in this life on earth.

Dream, and allow your dreams to prepare you 
to jump into the cool emotional waters of life.


Don't be afraid to stick your neck out to create the life you desire. Life is a series of trials and challenges for all of us. No matter how many times you fall down, the correct response is to get back up. Be willing to look foolish in search of your dreams. Sometimes you must risk feeling foolish to come fully alive.


"You have to take risks. We will only understand the miracle of life fully when we allow the unexpected to happen." Paulo Coelho



 
I expect my life 
to be good and joyous
from birth to death 
and through all eternity