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Tuesday, September 5, 2023
Your Heart is the Super Blue Moon
Friday, September 1, 2023
Lightarted Living: In the Dog Days of Summer when Troubles Pass you By
In the Dog Days of Summer when Troubles Pass you By
Monday, August 28, 2023
Lightarted Living: Tension is who you think you should be~Relaxation ...
Tension is who you think you should be~Relaxation is who you Are
'Tension is who you think you should be~Relaxation is who
you are.' Unknown
Tension is who you think you should be
I heard from a friend who started a new job. She woke up not
wanting to go to work. Why? She was stressed out thinking about how she should be
perfect already despite being only a couple of weeks into the job.
When I called to check on another friend he was in too bad a mood to talk. He was overwhelmed by a new job with enough work for two people. Being a
person who likes to finish and complete jobs, he was wound up because at the end of the work day he was left feeling dissatisfied that he'd accomplished too little.
And what about you? Think back over your last week. What caused you to be
tense? How did it relate to who you think you should be?
Maybe you're:
- Retired and think you should be doing more to enjoy it.
- Single and think you should be married already.
- A new working parent who thinks you should be able to balance work, parenting and 'me' time.
- Freshly graduated and think you should have a job already.
Tension is Useful
We all wage our private battle of attempting to bring together where we currently are with where we want ourselves to be. The battle creating tension isn't the issue. It's what we choose to do with it.
Too often we think tension = bad, and relaxation = good. The truth is, used properly, they're both good.
Tension will wear your body down if you fail to pay attention to it. But when you pay attention, you raise your awareness of what’s causing the discrepancy between where you are and where you want to be, thus freeing you to make conscious choices about it.
Relaxation is who you are
The woman chose to pay attention to her tension and address it. I responded to her stressed-for-success story encouraging her to relax:
"Working
a new job can be intense. Give yourself time to ease into it. Show up, do your
best, find a way to relax into it".
By the
end of the day she wrote back:
"Odd
you should say show up, do your best, find a way to relax into it. I talked
with the woman who hired me about my stress and she said, 'Quit trying to do
everything now. You have plenty of time. Stop stressing."
Almost the same thing happened for my friend in the foul-mood. He met with
his new boss the next day who just laughed that he was trying to 'get it all
done'. He told him to relax, and do his best in the job-without-end.
Relax into the Moment
When you find yourself stressing about not being good enough or knowing enough as you transition into a new role, refocus your attention from focusing on the future to focusing on the present.
Relaxation is who we are NOW IN THE MOMENT; Tension is who we are anticipating and focusing on being IN THE FUTURE.
Let go of who you think you should be (future tense) and focus on the calm of being who you are in the moment.
Calm Yourself
Use tension to nudge you on your way, then focus on specific steps you can take now to ease your way forward.
Always start with steps to calm and relax yourself.
- Talk to a confidant.
- Take a walk.
- Think outloud.
- Make a plan.
- Take one step.
"Imperfect, limited and vulnerable as I am,
the sun still shines upon me,
things do work out,
food appears,
rain falls and grass grows without my help."
Dharmavidya David Brazier
Tuesday, August 22, 2023
Lightarted Living: I Knew You in another Life Long Long Ago
I Knew You in another Life Long Long Ago
Monday, August 21, 2023
Lightarted Living: Stop Anticipating the Worst!
Stop Anticipating the Worst!
- See, hear, taste, touch, smell. Waken your senses.Get out of your head.
- Go for a walk. Smell the flowers. Look for birds. Feel the wind and sun.
- Cook a new meal. Focus on following the recipe. Smell the aroma. Taste the dish.
- Draw, color, or paint. Feel the color.
- Read emotive poetry outloud. Let your inner moon smile at your inner night.
Thursday, August 17, 2023
Lightarted Living: A New Moon Rising Brings Renewal
A New Moon Rising Brings Renewal
Sunday, July 30, 2023
The Sound of Silence Washes Over Me
Wednesday, July 19, 2023
Lightarted Living: Brigid: No Ordinary Cat
Brigid: No Ordinary Cat
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No Ordinary Cat
When a seemingly ordinary cat came into Linda's life she soon saw into the cat's soul and saw what others did not see.
To Linda, this was no ordinary cat. This was a Goddess who'd come to live with her.
She chose a name befitting her: Brigid, after the fiery-haired Celtic goddess who wore a cloak of sunbeams, known as the goddess of transformation. And Brigid rewarded Linda by living up to her name.
"She was my pillow cat--my heart and soul. I lived with a Goddess who transformed my life."
I first learned about Brigid a few years ago after she'd already passed. At that time, Linda sent me pictures and a description of her deeply loved cat.
"Did you think Brigid was an ordinary cat?, Linda asked. "This cat--Brigid, 'the bright one' is associated with the goddess of fire and transformation. See how her coat glistens with golden flames?"
A Magnificant Cat Bringing Radiant Sunbeams of Love
Linda felt so fortunate to have Brigid come into her life. She had been chosen by this magnificent creature.
"Lucky me! Brigid the goddess of transformation making herself manifest in my livingroom!"
"All that radiance! Yet people who met Brigid dismissed her as an ordinary cat. But I saw her magnificence!"
Seeing the Extraordinary in the Ordinary
Yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and so is your outlook on life.
Imagine the relationship between Linda and Brigid. Once Linda saw Brigid's magnificence, their life together was filled with radiant sunbeams of love.
Words matter. Thoughts matter. Beliefs matter.
Our relationships with animals, humans and the world around us are determined by how we talk and think about them.
Talk about the beings around you in a derogatory manner and you set yourself up for conflict and misery; talk about others in ordinary terms and you'll experience a mundane existence with them. But think about others in elevated terms and you set yourself up for radiant sunbeams of love coming your way.
When you learn to see the extraordinary in the ordinary beings around you, you learn to transform your life into something extraordinary that opens you up to all the riches and possibilities life has to offer.
Why shouldn't we all live among gods and goddesses in our lives? Why shouldn't we be gods and goddesses ourselves?
Brigid's Blessing
"Bless every heart
that beats beneath its roof.
Bless every hand
that toils to bring its joy.
Bless every foot
that walks portals through.
May Brigid bless the house that shelters us."
The Spirit of Brigid, The Goddess of Transformation Returns
The spirit of Brigid returned to knock on my door the other day. Lucky me!
As I sat in my art room, a scanned image sitting on top of a pile that had been recently rearranged caught my attention. This image had been in my art room for three years waiting for me to take notice!
It wasn't until I had drawn in the two beings in the picture above that I stopped to consider what the picture was underneath. It was the picture of Brigid the cat oriented sideways.
Brigid had slyly called to me, "It's time for my spirit to return".
"Transforming her spirit into a coat of many colors, Brigid effortlessly glides into this world to set it on fire once more."
Why not let the Spirit of Brigid transform your outlook on life? Reach for the radiant sunbeams of love that's waiting for you to simply see what is always before you: The extraordinary in the ordinary; The magnificent in the ordinary.
Choose to elevate your outlook on life. Brigid was no ordinary cat, and this is no ordinary life.
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