Leaving Your Worries Behind

Cruising Down the River of Life

“I left a good job in the city

working for the man every night and day

I never lost one minute of sleeping

I was worrying 'bout the way the things might've been’

We're rolling, rolling, rolling on the river.”

Tina Turner

Rough Waters? 

Leave Your Worries Behind

We’ve all got worries but don't let them drag you down.

Learn to set sail in life no matter how rough the waters.

Learn to navigate through the emotionally tough times.

Step Up

Climb Aboard

Rock the Boat

Branching Out in Life  

Want to really feel alive?

Go out on a limb. 

Make a commitment to improve your life.

Take a Leap of Faith.

Trust this new branch of life will support you.

Feel the thrill of knowing you’re really living your dream.

DREAM

Smooth Sailing

 Row, row, row your boat,

Gently down the stream,

Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily,

Life is but a dream.

Life is Always there to Support you

Trust 

Hope

Believe

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For more than 35 years, Susan Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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Lightarted Living: Looking Ahead Hopefully

Lightarted Living: Looking Ahead Hopefully: "Looking ahead hopefully  is the essence of being happy." Gail Sheehy Thirsty Boots "Oh take off y...

Looking Ahead Hopefully

"Looking ahead hopefully 

is the essence of being happy."

Gail Sheehy

Thirsty Boots

"Oh take off your thirsty boots

And stay for awhile

Your feet are hot and weary from a dusty mile

And maybe I can make you laugh

And maybe I can try

Lookin' for the evenin'

And the mornin' in your eyes"

Eric Andersen, American Singer-Songwriter

"Pack up your sorrows

And give them all to me"

Songwriters Mimi & Richard Fariña

Hope is like the sun, 

which, as we journey toward it, 

casts the shadow of our burden behind us.

Samuel Smiles

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Lightarted Living: Let Go of the Past Gracefully

Lightarted Living: Let Go of the Past Gracefully: ~The Graces~   The givers of charm, creativity, and beauty If you're looking for ways to move beyond past hurts and grievances w...

Let Go of the Past Gracefully

~The Graces~ 

The givers of charm, creativity, and beauty

If you're looking for ways to move beyond past hurts and grievances with ease and grace, consider inviting 'the three Graces' from Greek mythology to inhabit your heart and soul.

Like me, you've probably forgotten who the three Graces are--so you may have a hard time inviting them to dwell in your heart--especially if you're feeling hurt, stuck and generally suspicious of life. No matter. Time to get reacquainted with the lighter side of the Goddess within.

The Three Goddess Sisters

Embracing the Goddess Within 

💛The Graces of Greek mythology are the three sister Goddesses of grace, beauty, joy, mirth, festivity, dance and song, and are known as 'the givers of charm and beauty'.

💓The Graces, are the goddesses who give 'festive joy' and enhance 'the enjoyments of life' through refinement and gentleness.  

If you choose to embrace and embody the attributes of the three Graces, you'll choose to practice the fine art of gracefulness in your all your social interactions--both past and present--preferring to move through life with elegance and ease.  

'These enchanting goddesses--The Graces--were created to fill the world with pleasant moments and goodwill.'

Greek poet Pindar

The Goddess of Graceful Living

Perfecting the Art of Graceful Living

As a 'Goddess of Graceful Living' you consciously choose an inner life of goodwill over an inner life of grievances--choosing to find ways to create festive joy and gentleness in your own heart first and foremost. 


The key to letting go of the past gracefully is to let go of ways of thinking that no longer serve you, while taking on ways of thinking that create goodwill, calm and festive joy in your inner world. 

Saving Grace

Let Go Gracefully

Our saving grace is we really do desire to have a life filled with good relationships and experiences. As much as we'd love to secretly harbor our resentments and ill-will towards those who've offended us, there is a stronger desire to be unencumbered by these hurts. 

Let the Goddesses of Grace take up residence within you and let go of what no longer serves you.

Unload ways of thinking that no longer serves you

💓Who or what has hurt you? Let it go
💙What have you lost that grieves you? Let it go
💛What's happened that's holding you back from moving on with life gracefully? Let it go

Embrace ways of thinking that bring you 'festive joy'

💓Who or what do you think of that gives you festive joy? Embrace it.

💙What have you gained in your life that makes your heart sing? Embrace it.

💛What's happened in your life to help you move on with grace and ease? Embrace it.

“You become what you think about all day long.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

Let The Three Graces Inhabit Your Soul

The Three Graces 

💛Aglaia~The Grace of Beauty 

💓Euphrosyne~The Grace of Delight 

💙Thalia~The Grace of Blossom 

As a 'Goddess of Graceful Living' you consciously choose an inner life of goodwill over an inner life of grievances--choosing to find ways to create festive joy and gentleness in your own heart first and foremost. 

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Lightarted Living: Give it a Rest, Already!

Lightarted Living: Give it a Rest, Already!: Up Above the World so High Problems piling up? Worries keeping you up at night? Give it a Rest, Already! Hope   ...

Give it a Rest, Already!

Up Above the World so High

Problems piling up?

Worries keeping you up at night?

Give it a Rest, Already!

Hope  

"Hope is the thing with feathers

That perches in the soul,

And sings the tune without the words,

And never stops at all."

Let it Gently Float Away

"And sweetest in the gale is heard;

And sore must be the storm

That could abash the little bird

That kept so many warm."

Sleep on It

"I've heard it in the chilliest land,

And on the strangest sea;

Yet, never, in extremity,

It asked a crumb of me."

Emily Dickinson 

Rise Above it~and Let it Go

Listen to the Exhortation of the Dawn! 

"Listen to the Exhortation of the Dawn! 

Look to this Day! 

For it is Life, the very Life of Life. 

In its brief course lie all the 

Verities and Realities of your Existence. 

The Bliss of Growth, 

The Glory of Action, 

The Splendor of Beauty; 

For Yesterday is but a Dream, 

And Tomorrow is only a Vision; 

But Today well lived makes 

Every Yesterday a Dream of Happiness, 

And every Tomorrow a Vision of Hope. 

Look well therefore to this Day! 

Such is the Salutation of the Dawn!" 

Kalidasa, 5^th century Sanskrit poet

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For more than 35 years, Susan Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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Lightarted Living: Fate Leads the Willing and Drags the Reluctant

Lightarted Living: Fate Leads the Willing and Drags the Reluctant: FATE LEADS THE WILLING AND DRAGS THE RELUCTANT SENECA GIDDY-UP! Sign Up for Free E-mail updates              ...

Fate Leads the Willing and Drags the Reluctant

FATE LEADS THE WILLING

AND DRAGS THE RELUCTANT

SENECA

GIDDY-UP!

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For more than 35 years, Susan Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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Lightarted Living: The Secret to Stop Procrastination: Begin Simply, ...

Lightarted Living: The Secret to Stop Procrastination: Begin Simply, ...: "Eat a live frog first thing in the morning and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day." Mark Twain Okay, com...

Lightarted Living: What to do while Waiting for the Other Shoe to Dro...

Lightarted Living: What to do while Waiting for the Other Shoe to Dro...: 'Before you criticize someone ,  you should walk a mile in their shoes.  That way when you criticize them,  you are a mile a...

Lightarted Living: May today be all you need it to Be

Lightarted Living: May today be all you need it to Be: May today be the day you achieve your heart's desire. May today be the day a stranger points you in the right directio...

May today be all you need it to Be

May today be the day you achieve your heart's desire.

May today be the day a stranger points you in the right direction.

May today be the day you find what you're looking for.

May today be the day you pocket your dreams and carry them with you.

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For more than 35 years, Susan Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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Lightarted Living: How to be Calm and In-Control When You Feel Anythi...

Lightarted Living: How to be Calm and In-Control When You Feel Anythi...: " Anyhow, t he short answer is 'No'; the long answer is 'Hell No! '" Fit-to-be-Tied  The other day I had ...

How to be Calm and In-Control When You Feel Anything But

"Anyhow, the short answer is 'No'; the long answer is 'Hell No!'"

Fit-to-be-Tied 

The other day I had a call from a woman who was fit-to-be-tied. She took a break from work so she could cool down after being blindsided by a colleague who wanted to put her back on a dysfunctional team she just left. 

Surprised and hurt, she blurted out an emphatic 'NO!' before she called me to unleash her frustration and anger in a safe place.

We're programmed to experience the full gamut of emotions, including anger, rage, frustration and fear, and there's nothing wrong with us when we're moved to outrage and feeling out-of-control. Outrage is a normal, healthy response to our boundaries being breached--yet it feels so awful, we're driven to get back to a calmer state as soon as possible.

So the question is, what can you do to regain your calm and sense of control sooner? In other words, how do you regain your calm and sense of control when you feel anything but?

How to Communicate like an Adult when you feel like a Child

In a hot moment of feeling pushed out-of-control by the actions of others, this young woman responded in just the right way to put her back on the road to feeling calm and in-control.  

While it may not have felt like it in the moment, once she was hit with a situation that made her feel like an out-of-control child--whose destiny is being dictated by others--she chose to communicate like an adult by changing where and when she released her frustration and anger.

To regain your composure when you're pushed to your limit, remove yourself from the situation to re-calibrate your response. 

Just like this woman instinctively knew, you can recenter yourself through engaging in two simple practices that shifts your reaction time and space: 

💓 Practice the Pause--When you practice the pause, you learn to close you mouth while you take a break from reacting to the situation--you put time between when you want to openly rage and when you calmly respond.

💙Retreat to a Safe Place to Vent--When you remove yourself from the situation pushing you out of control, you make it easier to voice your concerns in a safe manner. 

Calm Adults Speak with Grace and Strength 

When you're caught off-guard by being treated unfairly in the workplace, give yourself a moment to deal with the anger and frustration. Pause to find someone safe to talk with privately about how you're feeling and how you want to deal with the situation before you speak up. 

When we're calm in our responses we show ourselves to be adults with grace and strength who act thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively.  And more importantly than showing others we act with grace, we show ourselves we can regain our composure quickly and create better outcomes.   

'By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try the world is beyond the winning.' Lao Tzu

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For more than 35 years, Susan Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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Lightarted Living: Kahlil Gibran~Forget not the Earth Delights

Lightarted Living: Kahlil Gibran~Forget not the Earth Delights: Breathe and Be Free “Forget not that the earth delights  to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your ha...

Kahlil Gibran~Forget not the Earth Delights

Breathe and Be Free

“Forget not that the earth delights 

to feel your bare feet

and the winds long to play with your hair.”

Kahlil Gibran

Look for the Magic and Beauty

“The appearance of things changes 

according to the emotions; 

and thus we see magic and beauty in them, 

while the magic and beauty are really in ourselves.”

Kahlil Gibran

Turn Thought into Action

“Thought is a bird of space,

that in a cage of words may indeed

unfold its wings but cannot fly.”

Kahlil Gibran

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For more than 35 years, Susan Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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Lightarted Living: Rid Your Life of Drama and Emotional Clutter

Lightarted Living: Rid Your Life of Drama and Emotional Clutter: Let Go Being a person who values freedom, I’ve been working on letting go of things that clutter my mind and attention. When I first ...