Wednesday, February 28, 2018

Lightarted Living: A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes

Lightarted Living: A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes: Wish Granted! Hope, Dreams and Wishes When I was a kid, I loved Sunday nights.  Surrounded by my family in the den (TV room),...

A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes



Wish Granted!

Hope, Dreams and Wishes

When I was a kid, I loved Sunday nights. Surrounded by my family in the den (TV room), I'd sit at the bottom of the stairs leading up to my bedroom listening to the Walt Disney theme song start and end the family program. 

Whether hearing "When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are" or "A dream is a wish your heart makes when you're fast asleep", the lyrics gently wafted into my brain and made me feel safe.

It was a cozy and calm family moment each week when I felt all things were possible, and no matter how dire the problem, there were no problems that couldn't be solved. 

Some of my best childhood memories and beliefs were facilitated by watching Walt Disney Sunday programs and animated films, and having my mother read me fairy tales and other such stories over and over again.

My continuous exposure to these uplifting songs and hopeful messages laid a lyrical sound track in my head that helped me create a hopeful and optimistic way of seeing the world. Sharing a home with loving parents and scrappy, but loving, siblings made the hopeful messages ring true.

I learned bad things can happen to people but they can still have happy endings. Or people can make mistakes but they can recover and still be loved.

Lately I've been thinking about the difficulties people around me have experienced. Bad things have happened to some; and others have made mistakes. 

Perhaps you are one. 

If you or someone you know needs a moment to return to a place of simplicity, innocence and hope, take a moment to reconnect to these childhood songs and nursery rhymes. 

Don't glaze over the words. Stop to truly absorb the meaning of these messages of hope.

Never Stop Believing

Hope Springs Eternal


When You Wish Upon a Star

by Leigh Harline and Ned Washington

"When you wish upon a star,
makes no difference who you are.
When you wish upon a star,
your dreams come true."



"If your heart is in your dreams
No request is too extreme
When you wish upon a star
As dreamers do."




"Like a bolt out of the blue
Fate steps in and sees you through
When you wish upon a star
Your dreams come true."




"When a star is born
They possess a gift or two.
One of them is this~
They have the power to make a wish come true."



May You Have Wishful Thinking!


I Wish I May, I Wish I Might

Star Light,
Star Bright,
First Star I see tonight, 
I wish I may,
I wish I might,
Have the wish I wish tonight!

Nursery Rhyme


A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes

By Mack David

"A dream is a wish your heart makes
when you're fast asleep."




"In dreams you will lose your heartaches
whatever you wish for, you keep.

Have faith in your dreams and someday
your rainbow will come smiling through."




"No matter how your heart is grieving,

if you keep on believing,
the dream that you wish will come true."


May You Always Be a Dreamer



Once Upon a Dream (from Sleeping Beauty)

By Lana Del Rey

"I know you, I walked with you once upon a dream

I know you, that look in your eyes is so familiar a gleam

And I know it's true that visions are seldom all they seem
But if I know you, I know what you'll do
You'll love me at once, the way you did once upon a dream."




In your moments of difficulty take these songs to heart:  Hold on to your dreams and wishes~and know no matter who you are and what you're going through you always have hope, strength, and courage for the future.

Believe in Happy Endings


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Friday, February 23, 2018

Lightarted Living: Grief is Like the Ocean

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Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Lightarted Living: Valentine Wishes to make You Smile

Lightarted Living: Valentine Wishes to make You Smile: A strong woman knows she has strength enough for the journey, but a woman of strength knows it  is the the journey that will make...

Valentine Wishes to make You Smile


A strong woman knows she has strength enough
for the journey, but a woman of strength knows it 
is the the journey that will make her strong.

Be Strong



We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are.

Believe in Yourself



Be who you are and be that well.

Be Yourself



When you realize how perfect everything is,
you will tilt your head back and laugh at the sky.

Enjoy Life!


Smile!

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Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Lightarted Living: Carl Jung: Who Looks Outside, Dreams~Who Looks Ins...

Lightarted Living: Carl Jung: Who Looks Outside, Dreams~Who Looks Ins...: Waiting to Live  Don't Be Afraid to Live Life to the Fullest Where are you at this moment in life? Would you like to dream...

Carl Jung: Who Looks Outside, Dreams~Who Looks Inside, Awakens

Waiting to Live

Don't Be Afraid to Live Life to the Fullest

Where are you at this moment in life? Would you like to dream and achieve, or awaken and come alive?

Perhaps life has dealt you a blow and you feel beaten down or lulled to sleep to avoid the pain of reality--and you are neither interested in dreaming or awakening--you're just surviving. 

Or perhaps you're in a moment when you're anticipating future negative events--layoff, retirement, divorce, illness, failure, or being left behind--and the fear and anxiety clouds out any thoughts of dreaming and looking forward with optimism. 

Sure, sometimes life is harsh making you retreat and give up. We've all been there.

But don't be afraid to refresh your desire to dream or wake from your deep sleep. By redirecting your attention from your past or future onto today you can focus on the desires of your heart. Keep asking yourself what would make you feel fully alive today to let your mind focus on it.  

 "When you want something, 
the entire universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
Paulo Coelho


Don't be afraid to stick your neck out 
to create the life you desire. 

Get Up~Refresh Your Desire to Dream

Life is a series of trials and challenges for all of us. No matter how many times you fall down, the correct response is to get back up. Be willing to look foolish in search of your dreams. Sometimes you must risk feeling foolish to come fully alive.

"You have to take risks. We will only understand the miracle of life fully 
when we allow the unexpected to happen."  Paulo Coelho



  It's never too late to reclaim your dreams and rekindle your spirit


Take time to create a clear vision for the life you want to live now. Look within to discover what makes you come alive. Step back into the world to put your dreams into action. It is never too early or too late to create a good and joyous life.

"Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart.
Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens."   Carl Jung




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Monday, February 12, 2018

Lightarted Living: Tension is Who You Think You Should Be~Relaxation ...

Lightarted Living: Tension is Who You Think You Should Be~Relaxation ...: What's Up?  What's Bothering You? ��What's happening in your life at this moment?  ��What's making you feel t...

Tension is Who You Think You Should Be~Relaxation is Who You Are


What's Up? 

What's Bothering You?

💚What's happening in your life at this moment? 
💚What's making you feel tense?
💚What do you feel you should be doing you're not?
💚How are you failing to live up to someone else's expectations or your own?


 'All this stuff is getting to me' is just one of many seemingly benign statements we might make to others that allows us to remain seemingly in-control as we voice our tension. 

But to truly be in-control, and act decisively and with purpose we need to move beyond the diffuse terms keeping us stuck and mired in a cesspool of fear and anxiety.

To let go of the things 'putting you over the edge'  you need to identify what it is, and then deal with it.

When you ignore or deny the existence of your stress you leave those things eating away at you to boil and fester until they spew out and splatter everyone around you.


What's Lurking in the Underbrush of Your Life? 

The Last Three Days 

Looking over the last three days, what's stressing you out? Pick one situation to describe in uncensored detail in your head--and let it rip!

As you focus on the recent tension-inducing incident notice any changes in your body as you merely think about it:

💚What happens to your heart rate and breathing? 
💚Do you notice any discomfort in your head or stomach? 
💚Are you aware of clenching your teeth or tightening your jaw; tension in your neck, back or other muscles? 
💚Do you feel tearful or angry?

Our stress-inducing experience has the ability to cause tension as we merely think about it. We don't even need to experience it to bring the stress-response on. That's why it's important to name it so you can stop stuffing it.


Relaxation is Who You Are

Get Back to Who You Are
'Tension is who you think you should be; Relaxation is who you are'.  Chinese Proverb

What does 
'tension is who you think you should be; relaxation is who you aremean? It means living your life from a place of 'shoulds' is what causes problems. 

Living in the 'world of should'  creates the tension and discomfort that throws us into a mental fog and leaves us feeling overwhelmed and tense. 

If you care about being your healthiest, most robust self, choose to consciously identify what's causing you tension and bringing out the full stress-response in your body. Don't ignore it. Choose to name your stressor, and choose to engage in actions that puts you back living in a state of 
relaxation and who you really are.

Trust you hold the key to being your best, truly in-charge self. Act on what you know to be right for you. Take the steps that will help you feel fully alive, fully productive, and fully engaged. Be brave.


Be Your Healthiest, Most Robust Self

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Thursday, February 8, 2018

Lightarted Living: Plant Kindness, Harvest Love

Lightarted Living: Plant Kindness, Harvest Love: Plant Kindness, Harvest Love  A bit of fragrance clings to the hand that gives flowers.  Chinese Proverb Plant Kin...

Plant Kindness, Harvest Love


Plant Kindness, Harvest Love 

A bit of fragrance clings to the hand that gives flowers. 

Chinese Proverb


Plant Kindness, Harvest Love 

But listen to me
For one moment quit being sad
Hear blessings dropping their blossoms
around you.


Rumi 



Plant Kindness, Harvest Love 

A bird does not sing because it has an answer. 
A bird sings because it has a song. 

Chinese Proverb


Plant Kindness, Harvest Love 

Be like the sun for grace and mercy.
Be like the night to cover others’ faults.
Be like running water for generosity.
Be like death for rage and anger.
Be like the Earth for modesty.
Appear as you are.
Be as you appear.

Rumi



Plant Kindness, Harvest Love 

You can't prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over your head, 
but you can prevent them from building nests in your hair. 

Chinese Proverb


Plant Kindness, Harvest Love 

People want you to be happy.
Don’t keep serving them your pain!
If you could untie your wings
and free your soul of jealousy,
You and everyone around you
would fly up like doves. 

Rumi


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Tuesday, February 6, 2018

Lightarted Living: The Dawn of HOPE

Lightarted Living: The Dawn of HOPE: Hope Arrives with the Dawn There was never a night or a problem  that could defeat sunrise or hope. Bernard Willia...

The Dawn of HOPE


Hope Arrives with the Dawn


There was never a night or a problem 
that could defeat sunrise or hope.

Bernard Williams


Hope is on the Horizon

Hope is like the sun, which, as we journey toward it, 
casts the shadow of our burden behind us.


Samuel Smiles


Day-Keepers Shoo Away the Ache

Day-Keepers arrive before you wake 
to make preparations for the dawn of each new day. 
They sweep away the cobwebs of darkness~
letting in light, love and comfort~
while shooing away the burden and ache.

Lightarted Sue

Hope is being able to see 
there is light despite all of the darkness.

Desmond Tutu

Hope lies in dreams,
in imagination, 
and in the courage of those 
who dare to make dreams into reality.

Jonas Salk


The breezes at dawn have secrets to tell you
Don’t go back to sleep!
You must ask for what you really want.
Don’t go back to sleep!
People are going back and forth
across the doorsill where the two worlds touch,
The door is round and open

Don’t go back to sleep! 

Rumi




Listen to the Exhortation of the Dawn! 

Listen to the Exhortation of the Dawn! 
Look to this Day! 
For it is Life, the very Life of Life. 
In its brief course lie all the 
Verities and Realities of your Existence. 
The Bliss of Growth, 
The Glory of Action, 
The Splendor of Beauty; 
For Yesterday is but a Dream, 
And Tomorrow is only a Vision;
But Today well lived makes 
Every Yesterday a Dream of Happiness, 
And every Tomorrow a Vision of Hope.
Look well therefore to this Day!
Such is the Salutation of the Dawn! 

Kalidasa, 5th century Sanskrit poet


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