Thursday, December 14, 2017

A Simple Stress Management Technique: Finding FLOW

Do You See What I See?

Finding FLOW and JOY through the Eyes of a Child

I admit it. I'm just a kid at heart who continues to look at the world  through the eyes of imagination. At 65 I still love getting to the dentist's office early to flip through the children's 'Highlights' Magazine to play with the 'hidden pictures' page. 

In the words of my then toddler, Sean, trying to coax me away from working on the computer: "It is good to play."

As a kid I loved laying in bed and looking up at the ceiling to find hidden pictures in the plastered swirls above. As an adult I continue to look for the hidden pictures everywhere I go--finding objects in bathroom tiles and shower walls--and in trees, leaves, rocks and flowers on nature walks.

So when fellow artist and sis-in-law, Lee--who shares my love of finding hidden pictures in the world around us--asked me to see what I saw in her 'underpainting' for a painting she started I was hooked. 

I was like a dog with a bone--focused and oblivious to the world around me--barely coming up for air as I looked into the underpainting to discover what treasures were present. This is the very definition of FLOW--the magical state where stress and anxiety melt away and pure joy emerges. 

What Do You See in Lee's Underpainting?

Child's Play Leads to FLOW

What do you see in Lee's underpainting? Free your mind and eyes to let people, animals and objects pop out at you. Then look again and see what else pops out at you. There is no one around to judge what you see. It doesn't matter how primitive the image is. There is no right or wrong answer.

It is through child's play we're able to find flow as we immerse ourselves in unselfconscious activity. The moment we're on the hunt for something of interest we're taken out of our critical and judgmental self--the one afraid to make a mistake or do something wrong--and moved into our curious and open self. 

When we move with a child's innocence into a state of FLOW, we're so focused on the present fascination we leave all judgment, fear and worry behind. There is nothing before us but the object of our attention and we're sucked into playing.

I See Connection--What do You See?

Every Day Look with Fresh Eyes

What began with a simple request for me 'to see what I saw' in Lee's canvas shot me onto a four day journey of play in which I approached the canvas fresh each day to see what emerged. 

Each morning before I opened my eyes my mind started churning on what fun images might appear and with pen in hand, I freed my mind to see what was before me as I filled in the images that popped out of the virgin underpainting. 'Laisser-Courre', 'Connection' and 'The Gathering' are what appeared on three different days.

But it didn't stop there. On my walks I had a renewed interest in looking at the world in a new way--looking to find hidden objects in everything--the leaves, rocks, trees and sky. 

You can do this too to calm your mind and create a state of flow.

I See a Conversation--What Do You See?

Practice Looking for Hidden Pictures to Quiet Your Mind

You can use this simple technique of looking for the hidden pictures to move you into FLOW and quiet your mind. Play with finding hidden objects until you don't want to do it any more. This is about letting your mind freely play without expectation or judgment. 

Let your images sit for a day then take another look. What messages do you see?  


I See a Bird, a Person, a Dog--What Do You See?

Blank Canvases are Everywhere 

Look for your own 'blank canvases' in the world to immerse yourself in as you look for the hidden pictures they contain. Photograph your walls, tile floors, or tree bark or use someone else's image to loosen your eyes to find the hidden pictures within. 

Above is one of many abstract markings on my shower wall I photographed for my fun. Feel free to play with it to see what you see in it.

Below are tiles from 'Connection' that I sat with for one more day. The more you study what's hidden the more you'll discover.

Belonging



 The Lion--or is it?
Look closely at the lion's face--it's a chicken!
Look closely at the lion's paw--it's a parrot!
FUN!

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Monday, December 11, 2017

Lightarted Living: Thrive and Bloom Where You're Planted

Lightarted Living: Thrive and Bloom Where You're Planted: 'The amount of happiness that you have  depends on the amount of freedom  you have in your heart.' Thich Nhat Hanh ...

Thrive and Bloom Where You're Planted


'The amount of happiness that you have 
depends on the amount of freedom 
you have in your heart.'


Thich Nhat Hanh



'Find the seed at the bottom of your heart 
and bring forth a flower.'

Shigenori Kameoka


'What we do for ourselves dies with us. 
What we do for others and the world remains immortal.'  

Albert Pine



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Thursday, December 7, 2017

Lightarted Living: Sing and Dance together and be Joyous! Kahlil Gibr...

Lightarted Living: Sing and Dance together and be Joyous! Kahlil Gibr...: 'Sing and dance together  and be joyous!'  'But let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lut...

Sing and Dance together and be Joyous! Kahlil Gibran



'Sing and dance together 


and be joyous!' 


'But let each one of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone

though they quiver with the same music.'


'Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.

For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.'


'And stand together yet not too near together:


For the pillars of the temple stand apart,


And the oak tree and the cypress grow 


not in each other’s shadow.' 


Kahlil Gibran


'Dance lightly on the edges of time 

like the dew on the tip of a leaf.'

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Wednesday, December 6, 2017

Lightarted Living: Rumi~I Closed My Mouth and Spoke to You

Lightarted Living: Rumi~I Closed My Mouth and Spoke to You: ��Be Plain Spoken--Speak from the Heart �� 'When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you-- a joy.'...

Rumi~I Closed My Mouth and Spoke to You


💓Be Plain Spoken--Speak from the Heart 💓

'When you do things from your soul,
you feel a river moving in you--a joy.'

Rumi


💙Listen Carefully💙

'I closed my mouth and spoke to you.'

Rumi


💓What is right is always in our deepest heart of hearts💓

'Only from the heart can you touch the sky.'

Rumi

'In our deepest moments of struggle, frustration, fear, and confusion, we are being called upon to reach in and touch our hearts. Then, we will know what to do, what to say, how to be.'
Roberta Sage Hamilton


When you feel a peaceful joy, that's when you are near truth. 

Rumi

'What is right is always in our deepest heart of hearts. It is from the deepest part of our hearts that we are capable of reaching out and touching another human being. It is, after all, one heart touching another heart.'

Roberta Sage Hamilton

Dialogue to Re-establish Broken Relationships

Choose to step in and actively engage others instead of
stepping around and actively avoiding others.


Speak from the Heart to Create Peace with Loved Ones

Reach into your heart to know what to do, what to say, how to be. Choose to step in and actively engage others from your heart by talking to them instead of about them. Ask clarifying questions and listen with the intention to hear and understand. Seek agreements and facts to find common ground to build up your relationship.


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Monday, December 4, 2017

Lightarted Living: A Dog Lover's Response to its 'Just a Dog'

Lightarted Living: A Dog Lover's Response to its 'Just a Dog': 'Just a Dog' Arrow My brother, Royce, an avid dog lover, sent me 'Just a Dog'  by Richard Biby when my dog, Arrow, r...

A Dog Lover's Response to its 'Just a Dog'



'Just a Dog' Arrow

My brother, Royce, an avid dog lover, sent me 'Just a Dog' by Richard Biby when my dog, Arrow, recently passed.  I'm sharing it with you now, and adding it to my list of heart-felt things to share with those grieving after the loss of a dog.

Just a Dog 
by Richard Biby

From time to time people tell me to lighten up and say ‘It's just a dog’ or ‘that's a lot of money for just a dog’. They don't understand the distance traveled, time spent or costs involved for ‘just a dog’.

‘Just a dog’ Ginger
💓Some of my proudest moments have come about with ‘Just a dog’. 
💙Many hours have passed with my only company being ‘just a dog’
and not once have I felt slighted. 
💚Some of my saddest moments were brought about by ‘just a dog’. 
💛In those days of darkness, the gentle touch of ‘just a dog’ provided comfort
and purpose to overcome the day.

If you, too, think its ‘just a dog’, you will probably understand phrases like ‘just a friend’ or ‘just a sunrise’ or ‘just a promise’.

‘Just a dog’ Rosie
💜‘Just a dog’ brings into my life the very essence of friendship, trust, and pure unbridled joy. 
💓‘Just a dog’ brings out the compassion and patience that make me a better person.
💙 Because of ‘just a dog’ I will rise early, take long walks, and look longingly to the future.

‘Just a dog’ Ginger
For me and folks like me, it's not ‘just a dog’--It's an embodiment of all the hopes and dreams of the future, the fond memories of the past, and the pure joy of the moment.

'Just a dog’ brings out what's good in me and diverts my thoughts away from myself and the worries of the day.

‘Just a dog’ Ginger

I hope that someday people can understand it's not ‘just a dog’--It's the thing that gives me humanity and keeps me from being ‘just a man’ or ‘just a woman’.

So the next time you hear the phrase "Just a dog", smile because they "just don't understand".

‘Just a Sweet-heart' Arrow

Many thanks to Richard Biby for writing this wonderful piece 'Just a Dog'.



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Friday, December 1, 2017

Lightarted Living: Untangle Your Feelings to Experience Love and Happ...

Lightarted Living: Untangle Your Feelings to Experience Love and Happ...: Untangle your Feelings People are often unreasonable and self-centered.  Forgive them anyway.  Mother Teresa Un...

Untangle Your Feelings to Experience Love and Happiness



Untangle your Feelings

People are often unreasonable and self-centered. 

Forgive them anyway. 

Mother Teresa




Untangle your Feelings

If you are kind, 

people may accuse you of ulterior motives.

Be Kind anyway. 

Mother Teresa



Untangle your Feelings

If you find happiness, 

people may be jealous.

Be happy anyway. 

Mother Teresa



Untangle your Feelings

Give the world the best you have 

and it may never be enough. 

Give your best anyway. 

Mother Teresa 



May you experience love and happiness today


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Wednesday, November 29, 2017

Lightarted Living: Every Time I Lose a Dog They Take a Piece of My He...

Lightarted Living: Every Time I Lose a Dog They Take a Piece of My He...: ��FAREWELL 'HE WHO WILL NOT BE IGNORED'�� ANON Morning Memory  Every morning after finishing his breakfa...

Every Time I Lose a Dog They Take a Piece of My Heart



💔FAREWELL 'HE WHO WILL NOT BE IGNORED'💓






ANON



Morning Memory 

Every morning after finishing his breakfast, Arrow would come into the office where I'd be working on the computer. He'd greet me with a tail wag and a soft paw on my leg to tell me to turn around so I could massage him while he looked deeply into my eyes to memorize my soul.
Dogs never believe we're too busy to relate with them. They are 'the beings who will not be ignored'. They work tirelessly to keep 'the pack' together and balanced.

Thanks to one of my favorite dog lovers, Art Lipski, for reminding me of this great dog quote.


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