Acting with Grace Under Pressure
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When you're well rested and secure with yourself you have no need to lash out at others and you're able to act with grace under pressure.
The Desire to Slap that Person
Okay, I get it--as pressure mounts and deadlines loom you desperately want to slap that critical, judgmental person standing on the sidelines telling you (and others) what you're doing wrong while failing to help move things forward. It would be so easy and feel so good to match her bad behavior--tit for tat; stone for stone.
But just because she demonstrates bad behavior doesn't mean you should. It doesn't help you in the moment of pressure and it doesn't help you in the long-run.
Learning to Act with Grace under Pressure
We all imagine what we'd like to do to other people when we're under pressure. It's only natural to imagine a quick 'fight or flight' reaction when you feel threatened. But you're always training yourself--and your brain--by your choices. When you succumb to reacting under pressure you train yourself to stay in the part of the brain that is reactive instead of moving to that part that allows you to take a more even, graceful approach under pressure.
Think of it this way: bad, reactive, obnoxious behavior is a result of feeling out-of-control while thoughtful, measured, graceful behavior is a result of feeling secure and in-control. You need to ask yourself which path you want to take--in-control or out-of-control.
People who feel out-of-control are easy to spot. They're the ones trying to control the environment and everyone else. They throw tantrums and blame others. Controlling people fear things are going to fall apart unless they force the situation and berate others. The truth is, it is the controlling person who feels most insecure and out-of-control.
"Choose to make life choices that result in you feeling more secure and in-control of your life."
You can learn to act with grace under pressure by making it a life choice that guides your daily actions.
"When you choose to act gracefully under pressure you commit to suspending judgment and practicing the pause whenever the urge to lash out comes over you"
Choose to act in a way you can look back in 20 years and be proud of yourself. When you make a life decision to take the path of feeling secure and in-control you'll slow down in moments of pressure, and pause to find your center.
Why 'practice the pause' when you're under pressure?
We all need down time to clear our heads
if we are to act gracefully under pressure.
In the short term, don't hand control of your emotions over to other people. When you're under pressure, the last thing you need is an energy-drain. Gather your energy and clear your head by removing yourself from the situation to center yourself.
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