Thursday, November 15, 2018

Its Time! Bring Back Love, Compassion, Kindness and Forgiveness




"You can't live a perfect day
without doing something for someone
who will never be able to repay you."

John Wooden

With all the tough stuff swirling around in the world, now more than ever its imperative we find ways to reach out to one another with compassion, kindness and forgiveness. 

We could all do with a bit of lightness and goodwill.

Begin with You

If you want to feel better yourself, there is no faster way than to extend a hand of kindness to others. As we do unto others, we do unto ourselves too. (Thus the saying 'back at ya.')

Furthermore, you need to extend the same compassion and kindness to yourself that you'd extend to others.  'Do unto others AS you do unto you'--in other words, spread the good stuff all around and don't forget yourself.

If you aren't exactly where you want to be at this stage of your life, relax and regroup. Life is a series of stop and start over episodes in which we're constantly adjusting our path. Be ready to forgive yourself for straying off path and reset your focus. 

Trust yourself to act in ways to make the world and your life a better place. Believe in yourself.



Do Unto Others

Who do you see around you who could use a bit of kindness or comfort? Perhaps its someone you know or perhaps its a stranger who has fallen on tough times. 

Never underestimate how an unexpected act of kindness can give another just the lift they need.

What single act of kindness could you do to make one person's life a little better? Do it today.

"It isn't what we don't know that gives us trouble. It's what we know that ain't so."  
Will Rogers



Seek to Heal 'Us Against Them'

“Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got.” 
Robert Brault

Where have you developed an 'us vs them' standoff in your life? Are you at a place where you might be willing to reestablish a relationship by extending a hand of forgiveness? 

What can you do to build bridges, begin the long journey to healing old hurts, and rebuild trust with people you care most about?

Who in your life have you recently hardened your heart against that if you softened your stance with you could reestablish a life based in compassion, understanding, forgiveness and love? 

💓Bury the hatchet.
💙Expand your heart.
💚Be a Bigger person.

Life is short. Use your compassion and forgiveness to build bridges and tear down walls. Use your imagination to touch up memories and rediscover the love and good times you previously shared with friends and family who have fallen by the wayside.

"You cannot do a kindness too soon for you never know how soon it will be too late."
Ralph Waldo Emerson             





Painting Your Dreams

💓What direction is your life taking at the moment? Is it where you want to go? Are you building a life based on love, compassion, kindness and forgiveness?

💙What are your burning life questions?  Who and what do you want to share your life? 


💛If you were to do something surprising with your life, what would it be?

💜What is the most interesting question someone has asked you about your life?

💓What is the most important thing you could do with your life? How can you be of greatest service to others?

💙What's stopping you from taking a step--any step? Go on--paint your dreams and get on with it.



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For more than 35 years, Susan Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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2 comments:

Jean | Delightful Repast said...

Sue, this is yet another "best ever" post of yours! Tweeting.

Susan J Meyerott, M.S. said...

Jean--wishing you the 'best ever' that life has to offer!