3 Heart-felt Keys to Finding Your Place in the World

'Find the seed at the bottom of your heart and bring forth a flower.'

Shigenori Kameoka

'What we do for ourselves dies with us. 

What we do for others and the world remains immortal.'  

Albert Pine

'The amount of happiness that you have 

depends on the amount of freedom you have in your heart.'

Thich Nhat Hanh

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Get More Out of Life: Discover Who You Are

You have gold inside... 

how do you bring it out so you sparkle and shine?

Who Am I? How Do I Succeed in Relationships and Life?

Want to get MORE out of life? Then get busy figuring who you are--what you value; how you pay attention; what grabs your attention; how you make decisions; what moves you; what gets your blood boiling. 

We all have naturally occurring--completely healthy--preferred ways of dealing with life. When you identify and use your personal preferences as your home base for navigating life and relationships you'll get the most satisfaction out of life.  

As you learn to trust and embrace your natural inclinations you'll get better at:

• Managing stress, time and life.
• Choosing a more satisfying life and career.
• Consciously and deliberately choosing to act differently when it serves you.

How Do I Learn my Preferences?

How do you identify your preferred  way of dealing with life? You can begin by studying the MBTI--Myers-Briggs Type Inventory--to understand your natural ways of being in the world.

GETTING STARTED 

Your 100% Healthy, Normal Way to Deal with the World

The MBTI, or 'Myers-Briggs' is an incredibly straightforward system that can help you clarify which of 16 healthy, normal ways to deal with the world you personally prefer. 

The MBTI helps you organize what you already know about yourself and others so you can more effectively communicate and deal with life.

The 16 types are comprised of 4 combinations of 4 preferences. You fall into one type based on your natural preferences for:

• Living more of an inner life (introversion) or outer life (extraversion); 
• Using sensing or intuition more often for collecting information (perceiving); 
• Using thinking or feeling more often for coming to conclusions (judging); 
• Using judging or perceiving more often in the outer world (the face you show others). 

The Four Preferences: What You Prefer Using MORE, not Solely

When you trust and work from your natural preferences you hold the key to foraging a satisfying and successful life. 

Since we're naturally inclined to spend more time doing what we prefer or enjoy--embracing and working out of your natural preferences ultimately results in getting more skilled dealing with the world in ways you find satisfying. 

And as you learn to consciously and deliberately work in non-preferred ways you can get better at doing things that don't come naturally too. This is what happens as you mature, although you never lose your preferences for how you like to be in the world.

You may get confused identifying your natural style because you witness yourself using both introversion and extraversion; sensing and intuiting; thinking and feeling; and judging and perceiving. 

The key to figuring out who you really are is to understand we all do everything some time, but we prefer spending MORE time introverting or extraverting and using our preferred functions MORE than our non-preferred functions. 

A PEEK AT HOW NATURAL PREFERENCES 

INFLUENCES CAREER CHOICES

CAREER IDEAS BY MBTI COLUMNS

Focus Technical Skills	Focus Service-with-a-smile	Focus Communication	Focus Science & Technology
ST Sensor-Thinker	SF Sensor-Feeler	NF iNtuitor-Feeler	NT iNtuitor-Thinker
PRACTICAL & MATTER-OF-FACT	SYMPATHETIC & FRIENDLY	ENTHUSIASTIC & INSIGHTFUL	LOGICAL & INGENIOUS
Prefers  Impersonal analysis of concrete facts	Prefers using Personal warmth  applied to  immediate situations	Prefers using Creativity to meet  human needs	Prefers Solving Problems
CAREERS Economics Lawyer Surgeon  Business Engineer Accountant Architect Transcriptionist Real Estate Broker Manufacturing & Production Handling precision machines & materials Financial Management	CAREERS Pediatrics Nursing Physical Therapy Occupational Therapy K-12 Teacher  Social Worker Selling Tangible Products Service Industry Retail Sales Actor Real Estate Broker	CAREERS College Professor Anthropologist Facilitator Selling Intangibles Counseling Coaching Research Psychiatry Writing Marketing & Advertising Social Media Strategist Publicist Public Speaking	CAREERS Scientific Research Mathematics Finance Research and Development  Military Leader Physicist Computer Scientist

We tend to self-select into careers that let us use our preferences more of the time. Turns out that is a very wise way to choose. The more we can live and work out of our natural home-base, the more satisfied we will be with our lives. 

We all come into the world with natural gifts to share. Learn what your natural gifts are and get more out of your life.

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Wisdom: Sometimes I'm Wise and Sometimes I'm Otherwise

'Ducunt fata volentem, nolentem trahunt'

'The Fates guide those who go willingly. All others they drag.'

From the Profound to the Practical

Ever since 'Sammy the Psychic', a radio personality, showed up in my very grounded and concrete-thinking sister's dream years ago, we've referred to her intuition as 'Sammy', as in 'What's Sammy telling you?'.

Being the 'intuitive and insightful' one who loves leading life management workshops to ask people emotionally difficult questions, I would often test out the 'squirm-factor' to questions before I used them in workshops on my 'both-feet-on-the-ground' sister in the years before Sammy showed up. 

She hated answering the future-oriented questions I posed, but she did. Questions like 'If I had my life to do over I would...' or  'If I had all the time and money in the world what would I do with my life? or 'The most important thing I ever did was....' made her squirm.

Over the years 'Sammy' appeared more frequently as Nancy learned to trust her insights more, and today she's gained an acquired taste for dealing with the profound future-oriented questions of life. 

But before you think I see myself as the wise one and Nancy as the mere commoner walking on the path to wisdom, know I believe wisdom comes in many forms and everyone has their own form of wisdom inside to share with others. 

We are all but commoners walking on our path to wisdom, and whether we like it or not, life has a way of stretching and strengthening us to expand our vision of life no matter our starting point. 

The expression of wisdom can extend from the profound and insightful to the practical and present. It is not simply contained in a few to be bestowed on the masses. Wisdom exists in each one of us.

Nancy's horse, GUS, contemplates the universe

Horses, Not Zebras


Nancy's natural wisdom comes in the form of horse-sense...and that's a horse of a different color.

Too often 'wisdom' is viewed narrowly as the 'wise teachings of the ancient sages' or as someone having the insight or ability to discern inner qualities and relationships. Yet having horse or common sense is an equally valuable form of wisdom, providing practical good judgment for solving life's challenges. 

Nancy aka Sammy often advises me, look for horses, not zebras--encouraging me to look for the most likely commonplace answer rather than the exotic. She reminds me 'you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink', or 'when you fall off a horse you get back up'. 

The beauty of horse-sense is it is a practical, action-oriented form of wisdom. It states the obvious and encourages you to act on what you know.

We all start with our own wise vantage point. Listening to the wisdom within you can mean accessing the profound or paying attention to the obvious and acting on what you know. Wisdom begins by tapping into your own inner wisdom to recognize the solution to your problem is right under your nose.

Gus asks 'What solution is right under your nose?'

What Good is Wisdom if it Doesn't Enhance Our Lives?

While there are many interpretations of the meaning of wisdom, what matters is how we use it to enhance our lives and the lives of those around us. For me, the Hebrew definition, 'to apply what I know', is the more important one. Time and again I rediscover what I know in order to put it to good use in my life. For me, taking a step--any step--to move life forward is always the ultimate wisdom. 

Greek Wisdom:      'To have knowledge.'
Hebrew Wisdom:  'To apply what you know.'

It always amazes me when I discover I've put common sense wisdom on the shelf. We all need a Sammy the Psychic to live inside us and point us in the right direction. We need to stop and make ourselves pay attention to what we know. To be truly wise, we have to see when we are not.

Sometimes we're wise....and sometimes we're otherwise. 

Wisdom for the Ages:

 "Never try to teach a pig how to sing, it wastes your time and annoys the pig." 

Robert Heinlein

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Kahlil Gibran: Sing and Dance Together and be Joyous!

 

'Sing and dance together 

and be joyous!' 

'But let each one of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone

 

though they quiver with the same music.'

'Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.

For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.'

          

   

'And stand together yet not too near together:

For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress grow 

not in each other’s shadow.'

Kahlil Gibran

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Kahlil Gibran~On Love

Let There be Spaces in Your Togetherness

'Let there be spaces in your togetherness, 

and let the winds of the heavens dance between you.'

Kahlil Gibran

Make not a Bond of Love

'Love one another but make not a bond of love: 

Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. 

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.'

Kahlil Gibran

We Wanderers~Ever Seeking the Lonelier Way

'We wanderers, ever seeking the lonelier way, 

begin no day where we have ended another day; 

and no sunrise finds us where sunset left us. 

Even while the earth sleeps we travel.'

Kahlil Gibran

We are the Seeds of the Tenacious Plant

'We are the seeds of the tenacious plant, 

and it is in our ripeness and our fullness of heart that 

we are given to the wind and are scattered.'

Kahlil Gibran

This post is dedicated to all who are contemplating sharing their hearts and lives.

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