Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Recovering from Disaster ~ A Journey of a Thousand Miles Begins with a Single Step ~ Lao Tzu


 No matter how hard the past, you can always begin again. The Buddha

When Disaster Hits

๐Ÿ’ง  Are you one of the lucky ones who feels you've dodged a bullet when you see what other people are dealing with but you're still fearful about how you and others will rebuild your lives?

๐Ÿ’ง  Or are you facing so many hardships and challenges you're left feeling hopeless and discouraged about ever finding your way back to a normal life?

๐Ÿ’ง  Are you tired of thinking about your current situation and just wish someone would do something about it?


How to Start Over and Treat Yourself Gently

When things get really tough—especially after experiencing a major disaster--it can be difficult to see your way out. 

These 3 timeless keys show you the way forward to starting over after your life is disrupted by economic and environmental hardship or personal crises.
1. Take the First Step 
Not much has changed in the thousands of years humans have been facing and recovering from the hardships of life. As Lao Tzu stated so long ago, 'a journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step'. 
We fuel our inner strength and sense of resiliency by taking action. 


But sometimes when faced with 'a journey of a thousand miles' we can be overwhelmed with the daunting task of where to begin. What is the first step?
The good news is any first step will do. Your hope, resiliency, and personal strength will grow stronger with every step you take. 

It doesn't matter what the first step is. As you experience yourself being pro-active and physically taking action, your ability to cope and hope will improve. 

So start with a single step--any step-- and then another.
2. Take Small Steps
An old Chinese Proverb says, 'The man who moved a mountain is the one who started taking away the small stones'. When you're in total overwhelm mode, start 'taking away the small stones'--one small step, then another. 


If you are in a position to help other people recovering from disaster, consider your best options for helping--and then take one small step followed by another. 
Don't wait for the perfect step. Do something.
3. Build a Nest in the Eye of the Storm
Anthropologist, Margaret Mead, traveled on her life adventure, with change and uncertainty her constant companions. Her grandmother, a major influence in Margaret's life, sent her on her journey with the sage advice to 'Always build a nest in the eye of the storm'.
This grandmotherly wisdom has had a strong influence in my own life. Whenever major life events cause upheaval in my life, my mind returns to this saying, and I think how important it is to apply in my own life to get things moving and balanced again. 
One thing I know--when you're in the middle of a crisis, the hardest thing to do is to think of taking care of yourself. 
You can forget to nourish your body, push your body to the limits with lack of sleep, and remain in a constant state of emotional overload. 




But if you focus on 'building a nest in the eye of the storm', you will begin to create a cushion to rest and a space for thinking.
What does it mean to build a nest in the eye of the storm? 
When life is swirling around you like a hurricane--you find a way to create a home-base of comfort--or nest--from which you can rebuild your daily existence.
๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“Start with the basics to nourish your body and rest your nerves. Your body likes a regular rhythm that includes regular heart beats, breaths, sleep patterns, eating times, moving times, and rest time.


๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“The small steps include beginning by getting your natural rhythms back in place.

๐Ÿ’™Eat regular, well-balanced meals that nourish you.
๐Ÿ’šPace yourself--put a time limit on dealing with your difficulties--and take regular rest breaks.
๐Ÿ’›Go to bed early.
๐Ÿ’œChoose to have daily contact with uplifting, supportive people who can listen and encourage you in your strength.
๐Ÿ’“If you're caring for others, take care of yourself first, so you have the strength and endurance to continue to help others.


Create a Place of Safety and Security

We all do our best thinking and acting when we do it in a place of safety and security. The key is to find a way to create your nest---no matter what storm is brewing. It may not be easy, but it is essential.
Life is a cycle, always in motion; if good times have moved on, so will times of trouble!   Indian Proverb


Update September 12, 2020: I am one of the lucky ones in Ashland, Oregon whose house was spared from the devastating Alameda fire that destroyed hundreds of homes and businesses in neighboring towns. I'm reaching out to those of you who are in a position to help financially to seek out gofundme pages for individuals and families to contribute to, or to contribute to our local Red Cross for victims of the Alemeda Fire. Please be as generous as you are able.

If you are unable to help financially, please consider helping by passing this message on to others who many be in a position to help. Also, if you are in an area where the fires have hit your local area, please find ways to help your neighbors. We are all in this together. Now is the time to reach out and be part of the greater community.

Here are a few Gofundme pages for individuals and families that lost everything in the fire to get you started:

https://gf.me/u/yxncz7  Rachel Kalb and babies

https://gf.me/u/yxpfrs   Jesse Lopez

https://gf.me/u/yxstct     Grandma Stella Cruz

https://gf.me/u/yxu6c6    Molly Erwin, RN

https://gf.me/u/yxpng6    Tejada-Ingrams family with 2 children

Also in great need the Northwest Seasonal Workers Association (see below). An estimated 500 workers and their families lost their homes.

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