Friday, April 26, 2019

Hope is Like the Sun~Samuel Smiles



HOPE

Hope is like the sun,
which, as we journey towards it,
casts the shadow of our burdens behind us.

Samuel Smiles




Bird's Eye View

Hope is being able to see there is light
despite all of the darkness.

Desmond Tutu


There never was a night or problem 
that could defeat sunrise or hope.

Bernard Williams




TOMORROW


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Good Night and Sweet Dreams

Always look beyond your current circumstances to discover the hope and beauty hiding in plain sight. Lull yourself to sleep with positive expectations for what's coming tomorrow.


Lull yourself to sleep...

"Fly away, fly away, drift away far..."


with thoughts about tomorrow...

"We'll ride painted horses with wind in our hair."

"We'll laugh merrily."

"We'll always remember the laughter we shared."


Tanya Goodman, A Child's Gift of Lullabyes
(These 'even good for adults' lullabyes can be purchased on Amazon.)









Photo of Stained Sink 
By Lee Bryant


From Dirty Sink to Sweet Dreams for Tomorrow

Beauty and hope are found everywhere we look if we're only willing to see. It's all a matter of perspective. The pen and ink HOPE art in this post were created by transforming an image of a dirty and well worn sink into pictures of hope. 


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Tuesday, April 23, 2019

Lightarted Living: Overcoming a Case of the Blahs: How to Regain the ...

Lightarted Living: Overcoming a Case of the Blahs: How to Regain the ...: Flowers grow out of dark moments "Love the moment.    Flowers grow out of dark moments.  Therefore, each moment is vital...

Overcoming a Case of the Blahs: How to Regain the Fire in Your Belly



Flowers grow out of dark moments
"Love the moment.
  Flowers grow out of dark moments. 
Therefore, each moment is vital. 
It affects the whole. 
Life is a succession of such moments 
 to live each, is to succeed." 
Corita Kent

 If everything is so Good, Why Do I feel so Blah?

We've all been there. 

There's nothing wrong. But work is stressful and you've been working too many hours trying to finish one great project before moving on to the next one. Oddly enough you might even be thinking of quitting.

As someone who prides herself on 'going all out' at work and in life, your focus on excellence has brought you praise and landed you great positions. Everyone loves your work and sings your praises, saying "You're smart, responsive, creative and productive" and "You have all the makings of a superstar".

So why are you now nursing a case of the blahs--feeling anti-social, wanting to take naps instead of socializing, and turning inward when you finally take time off?



Burnout and the Blahs

When you feel you've lost that fire inside driving you to excel and enthusiastically jump into working with the next project or client--or you secretly fear you're in over your head and are soon to be discovered as incompetent--you've come down with a bad case of the Burnout Blahs.

Like so many others who desire to make their mark on the world you've given your all without sufficiently replenishing your energy along the way. When we fail to adequately engage in non-productive play to re-balance, our fire and drive can extinguish quickly. 

When your emotions flat-line into a case of the blahs you know it's time to re-balance.
"Burnout is nature's way of telling you, you've been going through the motions and your soul has departed; you're a zombie, a member of the walking dead, a sleepwalker. False optimism is like administrating stimulants to an exhausted nervous system."
Sam Keen, Fire in the Belly


How to Regain the Fire in Your Belly

You already know you want to excel and be the best you can be. So why is it so difficult for you to do what you already know you need to do to maintain that fire in your belly more often than not? 

The secret to regaining the Fire in Your Belly?  Engage in non-productive play in your private persona.

Times of drive must be balanced with times of idling, and you must give yourself equal time living as your private self as you do as your public persona. Staying 'on' 24/7 is crazy-making behavior that leads to burnout, self-doubts and the blahs.

The antidote is to practice doing nothing--regularly. You must consciously plan fun private time into your week or you'll find the subtle ever-pervasive infiltration of work into your mindset. 


Train yourself to keep a reserve of relaxing and pleasurable moments in your daily life. Life isn't always about moving forward. Sometimes you have to stand still and clear your mind to be your best going forward.




"Find a place you trust and then try trusting it for a while."

 Corita Kent

💓Stop
💓Do nothing
💓Unplug
💓Give in to that nap
💓Unplan
💓Have a dream-free day
💓Lose the expectations
💓Accomplish nothing
💓Putter
💓Lolly-gag
💓Tinker
💓Find your FLOW
💓Listen to the wind 


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Sunday, April 21, 2019

Lightarted Living: Kahlil Gibran: Wake at Dawn with Winged Heart

Lightarted Living: Kahlil Gibran: Wake at Dawn with Winged Heart: "Wake at dawn with Winged Heart and Give Thanks for another day of loving" Kahlil Gibran "May ou...

Kahlil Gibran: Wake at Dawn with Winged Heart



"Wake at dawn with Winged Heart and

Give Thanks for another day of loving"

Kahlil Gibran




"May our hearts garden of awakening

bloom with hundreds of flowers"

Thich Nhat Hanh



The Kiss of Spring

Thanks to Linda Stickle for the photo of her cat
Winter posing in front of the Spring Blossoms. 

What a wonderful kiss of Spring.

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Saturday, April 20, 2019

Lightarted Living: A Dog Lover's Garden of Verses

Lightarted Living: A Dog Lover's Garden of Verses: �� May my heart always be open to little dogs who are the secrets of living s.j. meyerott via e.e. cummings �� ...

A Dog Lover's Garden of Verses



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May my heart always be open

to little dogs

who are the secrets of living

s.j. meyerott via e.e. cummings

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Blooming Dogs

Garden of awakening 

Bloom with hundreds of dogs.

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A dog's body is composed of

head and limb and torso.

Kept fit by dreams of squirrels,

and birdies even more so.

Susan J Meyerott via Ogden Nash

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May my heart always be open to little dogs

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May our heart's garden of awakening

bloom with hundreds of dogs.

Susan J Meyerott via Thich Nhat Hanh

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May our heart's garden of awakening

bloom with hundreds of flowers.

Thich Nhat Hanh

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May my heart always be open.

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A Tribute to Simone Patterson

Today's post is for Simone Patterson, whose heart is always open to all dogs large and small. A 2010 photo of her dogs served as the subjects.



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Thursday, April 18, 2019

Lightarted Living: Notre Dame Cathedral~A Symbol of our Resiliency, H...

Lightarted Living: Notre Dame Cathedral~A Symbol of our Resiliency, H...: "In our deepest moments of struggle we are being called up to reach in and touch our hearts. Then we'll know what to do,...

Notre Dame Cathedral~A Symbol of our Resiliency, Hope and Humanity


"In our deepest moments of struggle
we are being called up to reach in
and touch our hearts.
Then we'll know what to do,
what to say,
how to be."

Roberta S Hamilton


"When you are joyous, look deep into your heart 
and you shall find 
it is only that which has given you sorrow 
that is giving you joy. 

When you are sorrowful 
look again in your heart, 
and you shall see that in truth 
you are weeping 
for that which has been your delight."

Khalil Gibran


"Let your tears come.  
Let them water your soul." 

Eileen Mayhew


"Let's not be afraid to receive each day's surprise, 
whether it comes to us as sorrow or as joy 
it will open a new place in our hearts, 
a place where we can welcome new friends 
and celebrate more fully our shared humanity."

Henri Nouwen


"Above all things let us never forget that 
mankind constitutes one great brotherhood;
all born to encounter suffering and sorrow, 
and therefore bound to sympathize with each other."

Albert Pike



"Accept what is. 
Release what was. 
Create what must be."

Andrea Balt



Create what must be


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Tuesday, April 16, 2019

Lightarted Living: Happiness~It's Never Too Late...

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Happiness~It's Never Too Late...























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Friday, April 12, 2019

Lightarted Living: Lao Tzu~To the Still Mind the Whole Universe Surre...

Lightarted Living: Lao Tzu~To the Still Mind the Whole Universe Surre...: Hurry Up! ��Do you suffer from hurry sickness? Are you always rushed and worried you're missing out on opportunities or letting ...

Lao Tzu~To the Still Mind the Whole Universe Surrenders


Hurry Up!


💓Do you suffer from hurry sickness? Are you always rushed and worried you're missing out on opportunities or letting others down because you're rushing to get things done but you're always one step behind?

💓Do you sometimes feel discombobulated, like you just can't figure out how to keep up with everything no matter how hard you try—leaving you flustered and tired?

💓Do you continue to feel rushed long after there is any need?

I don't know about you, but I tend to push myself to achieve imaginary deadlines that only I—or more correctly my deep unconscious—knows what that deadline is. I may not have a severe case of hurry sickness, but I do find myself rushing to pick up speed and save a few minutes so I can get there faster. The problem is I'm not sure where 'There' is.



I've Got Good News and Bad News

This dilemma is illustrated in the story of an airline pilot who comes on the loudspeaker to chat with her passengers. 'Good morning ladies and gentlemen. I hope your ride has been smooth. I have some good news and some bad news. The good news is we're making great time; the bad news is we're lost.'




What Goes Up Must Come Down

Sure there are times in our lives when we must function at top speed to achieve specific goals and meet real deadlines. But why do we continue rushing at high speed even when we don't need to anymore? 

As the Chicago song says, 'What goes up must come down' --and that includes the frenetic speed and stress that goes up when we're rushing to meet those real deadlines. A constant state of hyperactivity and hurry sickness isn't good for any of us.

To get where we want to get in life we must slow down and rest the mind so we know what we want and how to get there.




Nature Does Not Hurry, Yet Everything is Accomplished

'Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished' says Lao Tzu, sage from 6th century BC. Grass does not try to grow. Water does not try to flow. Flowers do not try to bloom. They just do. There is no hurry in plant time, just the simple flow of life in the right time.


 So quiet your mind, and allow the simple flow of life to happen in the right time. 

Children grow up. People find mates. People find fulfilling jobs. Roads and bridges get built. Communities heal. Hurts heal.

Stop hurrying to build that bridge to nowhere. It'll still be available for you to work on later if you really must. But chances are, going forward with a stilled mind, you won't see the need to busy yourself with going nowhere. 

With a cleared mind and an open heart your life is cleared for things of importance--and the universe unveils all its secrets to you in the right time.



Slow Down, Still Your Mind

 'To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders.'  Lao Tzu

While we would like to think we are smarter, wiser, and much more advanced than those who lived centuries before us, so much timeless wisdom written centuries ago still speaks to us as if it was written today.

When you catch yourself with a case of hurry sickness, practice mindfulness, and apply the wisdom that came to us from so long ago. 


Stop. Adjust. Breathe. Relax.
Still the mind. Accomplish your dreams.


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