Friday, September 11, 2026

Lightarted Living: In the Garden of Hope

Lightarted Living: In the Garden of Hope:   

In the Garden of Hope

 


Let Hope Bloom

"If you knew hope and despair
were paths to the same destination
which would you choose?"

Robert Brault



"All it takes is one bloom of hope
to make a spiritual garden"

Terri Guillemets



Metamorphosis 

Be a cocoon transforming despair into hope.





GROW FAITH

I have faith in the future

All is Well

I'm in the process of positive change

In the Garden of Hope

 


Let Hope Bloom

"If you knew hope and despair
were paths to the same destination
which would you choose?"

Robert Brault



"All it takes is one bloom of hope
to make a spiritual garden"

Terri Guillemets



Metamorphosis 

Be a cocoon transforming despair into hope.





GROW FAITH

I have faith in the future

All is Well

I'm in the process of positive change

Tuesday, September 8, 2026

Lightarted Living: What to do While Waiting for the Other Shoe to Dro...

Lightarted Living: What to do While Waiting for the Other Shoe to Dro...:  

What to do While Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop? Stop Waiting Of Course!

 


'Before you criticize someone
you should walk a mile in their shoes. 
That way when you criticize them, 
you are a mile away from them, 
and you have their shoes.' 

Jack Handey, Deep Thoughts




Stop That!

Shedding Light on 'Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop'

Yes, it's time to put a little levity in whatever moment of darkness you have been concocting in your mind as you've been 'waiting for the other shoe to drop' in your life. 

For me, a week doesn't go by without something making the pit of my stomach drop as my mind anticipates the other shoe. Since I really hate that feeling, my mind naturally looks for ways to step beyond the waiting to taking action. And humor always seems to help.

What about you? What bit of bad news have you been waiting for? Wouldn't you like to step beyond it, too? Then come with me as I think through changing my own mindset.



No Drama Beginnings

Ordinary Origins: 'Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop'

'Waiting for the other shoe to drop' is such an interesting old-time saying. After recently hearing it used I decided to explore what's behind the saying and examine how we might rework our human habit of anticipating 'the worst' to create a more positive approach to moving forward with life.

Waiting for the other shoe to drop has come to mean waiting for something really bad to happen after we've already experienced one 'bad' event. Rather than moving on 'after disaster hits' we wait around for 'the inevitable other shoe to drop' while carrying around that bad feeling in the pit of our stomach. 

But the saying actually originated as a less-than-dramatic response to an ordinary situation during the late 19th and early 20th century.

Apparently in New York City tenements it was common for apartments to be built with one bedroom directly under another on the floor above. As the story goes, the tenet below would hear a neighbor removing his shoes as they hit the floor above. After one shoe hit the floor, the neighbor below would be 'waiting for the other shoe to drop'. Not very dramatic, is it?


When are you going to drop the other shoe?

The Uban Dictionary illustrated how the term dropped into being with this silly rendition:
'A guest who checked into an inn one night was warned to be quiet because the guest in the room below his was a light sleeper. As he undressed for bed, he dropped one shoe, which, sure enough, awakened the other guest. He managed to get the other shoe off in silence, and got into bed. An hour later, he heard a pounding on the floor and a shout: "When are you going to drop the other shoe?" Thus the term waiting for the other shoe to drop.'


Stop Waiting

"It is a grace and a strength to determine your own actions rather than allow them to be formed by the actions of others"
Unknown



Snap Out of It and Move On


'Waiting for the other shoe to drop' is an expression that aptly describes how we passively wait for things outside our control to determine what happens to us next. This is a very dis-empowering stance to take in life.

So when we find ourselves in that place of waiting for the other shoe to drop what can we do to move out of it faster? 

We can move out of that fear-producing stance by actively take charge of our next steps--including reinterpreting what's coming when the other shoe drops. We can choose to move into action.

Stop waiting. Start imagining a different shoe to put on and move on.


Lucky Horse Shoe Falling into your lap

Make Your Own Luck

Why not anticipate the other shoe to drop will be a lucky one? Or one to bring you joy?

Try bringing out your inner dog and anticipate your future with enthusiasm. 

Oh boy! A shoe! My favorite!

If you only look for bad things to show up, you'll only see bad things when they arrive and totally miss the good that regularly drops in your lap. If you switch to looking for good things coming next, you may actually see something good on the horizon.

We all start from a place of waiting for the other shoe to drop. The challenge is for us to find ways to move out of the fearful place sooner  so we can see the good stuff coming our way. 



Determine Your Own Way

Imagine the Shoe is a Boot and Pull Yourself Up by the Bootstraps

As long as we're waiting, we're not moving forward. As long as we're looking for the other shoe to drop, we've taken our eyes off our goals and dreams. 

Don't ever forget you are the master of your own life. You can greatly determine your own way by staying focused on what you want to make happen in your life and consistently taking action in the direction you want to go no matter what shoe drops.

Don't wait around for things to happen to you. Take a step--any step--in the direction you want yourself to go.

Imagine the other shoe to drop is a boot, pull yourself up by the bootstraps, and take charge.

Imagine the Shoe is Cinderella's Slipper

Don't forget when Cinderella's other shoe dropped she found her prince. 

Cinderella's story is proof that when the other shoe drops your life can change for the better.
'Give a girl the right shoe and she can conquer the world.' Marilyn Monroe



Imagine when the Other Shoe Drops You Walk Away



When that shoe drops get ready to walk away. 

Put those shoes on and walk away from drama as fast as you can. 

Don't linger in a bad situation. Step into action and keep on moving.


Imagine Life Throws You Dancing Shoes

'Please send me your last pair of shoes, 

worn out with dancing as

you mentioned in your letter, 

so that I might have something 

to press against my heart.'


 Johann Wolfgang von Goethe



Let Life Drop You Soft Bunny Slippers   


Be on the look out for the soft pink bunny slippers to be the next shoe to drop.  And if the slippers fit, wear them. Take time to relax in your comfy slippers knowing you can handle life calmly.


Say yes to the universe and accept everything life puts in front of you. Trust you can handle whatever life brings. Be confident and strong knowing all things seemingly good or bad work in your favor. 
'Even in the mud and scum of things, something always, always sings.' Ralph Waldo Emerson



Stand Tall 

Yours are Big Shoes to Fill

If the Shoe Fits, Wear it

What to do While Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop? Stop Waiting Of Course!

 


'Before you criticize someone
you should walk a mile in their shoes. 
That way when you criticize them, 
you are a mile away from them, 
and you have their shoes.' 

Jack Handey, Deep Thoughts




Stop That!

Shedding Light on 'Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop'

Yes, it's time to put a little levity in whatever moment of darkness you have been concocting in your mind as you've been 'waiting for the other shoe to drop' in your life. 

For me, a week doesn't go by without something making the pit of my stomach drop as my mind anticipates the other shoe. Since I really hate that feeling, my mind naturally looks for ways to step beyond the waiting to taking action. And humor always seems to help.

What about you? What bit of bad news have you been waiting for? Wouldn't you like to step beyond it, too? Then come with me as I think through changing my own mindset.



No Drama Beginnings

Ordinary Origins: 'Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop'

'Waiting for the other shoe to drop' is such an interesting old-time saying. After recently hearing it used I decided to explore what's behind the saying and examine how we might rework our human habit of anticipating 'the worst' to create a more positive approach to moving forward with life.

Waiting for the other shoe to drop has come to mean waiting for something really bad to happen after we've already experienced one 'bad' event. Rather than moving on 'after disaster hits' we wait around for 'the inevitable other shoe to drop' while carrying around that bad feeling in the pit of our stomach. 

But the saying actually originated as a less-than-dramatic response to an ordinary situation during the late 19th and early 20th century.

Apparently in New York City tenements it was common for apartments to be built with one bedroom directly under another on the floor above. As the story goes, the tenet below would hear a neighbor removing his shoes as they hit the floor above. After one shoe hit the floor, the neighbor below would be 'waiting for the other shoe to drop'. Not very dramatic, is it?


When are you going to drop the other shoe?

The Uban Dictionary illustrated how the term dropped into being with this silly rendition:
'A guest who checked into an inn one night was warned to be quiet because the guest in the room below his was a light sleeper. As he undressed for bed, he dropped one shoe, which, sure enough, awakened the other guest. He managed to get the other shoe off in silence, and got into bed. An hour later, he heard a pounding on the floor and a shout: "When are you going to drop the other shoe?" Thus the term waiting for the other shoe to drop.'


Stop Waiting

"It is a grace and a strength to determine your own actions rather than allow them to be formed by the actions of others"
Unknown



Snap Out of It and Move On


'Waiting for the other shoe to drop' is an expression that aptly describes how we passively wait for things outside our control to determine what happens to us next. This is a very dis-empowering stance to take in life.

So when we find ourselves in that place of waiting for the other shoe to drop what can we do to move out of it faster? 

We can move out of that fear-producing stance by actively take charge of our next steps--including reinterpreting what's coming when the other shoe drops. We can choose to move into action.

Stop waiting. Start imagining a different shoe to put on and move on.


Lucky Horse Shoe Falling into your lap

Make Your Own Luck

Why not anticipate the other shoe to drop will be a lucky one? Or one to bring you joy?

Try bringing out your inner dog and anticipate your future with enthusiasm. 

Oh boy! A shoe! My favorite!

If you only look for bad things to show up, you'll only see bad things when they arrive and totally miss the good that regularly drops in your lap. If you switch to looking for good things coming next, you may actually see something good on the horizon.

We all start from a place of waiting for the other shoe to drop. The challenge is for us to find ways to move out of the fearful place sooner  so we can see the good stuff coming our way. 



Determine Your Own Way

Imagine the Shoe is a Boot and Pull Yourself Up by the Bootstraps

As long as we're waiting, we're not moving forward. As long as we're looking for the other shoe to drop, we've taken our eyes off our goals and dreams. 

Don't ever forget you are the master of your own life. You can greatly determine your own way by staying focused on what you want to make happen in your life and consistently taking action in the direction you want to go no matter what shoe drops.

Don't wait around for things to happen to you. Take a step--any step--in the direction you want yourself to go.

Imagine the other shoe to drop is a boot, pull yourself up by the bootstraps, and take charge.

Imagine the Shoe is Cinderella's Slipper

Don't forget when Cinderella's other shoe dropped she found her prince. 

Cinderella's story is proof that when the other shoe drops your life can change for the better.
'Give a girl the right shoe and she can conquer the world.' Marilyn Monroe



Imagine when the Other Shoe Drops You Walk Away



When that shoe drops get ready to walk away. 

Put those shoes on and walk away from drama as fast as you can. 

Don't linger in a bad situation. Step into action and keep on moving.


Imagine Life Throws You Dancing Shoes

'Please send me your last pair of shoes, 

worn out with dancing as

you mentioned in your letter, 

so that I might have something 

to press against my heart.'


 Johann Wolfgang von Goethe



Let Life Drop You Soft Bunny Slippers   


Be on the look out for the soft pink bunny slippers to be the next shoe to drop.  And if the slippers fit, wear them. Take time to relax in your comfy slippers knowing you can handle life calmly.


Say yes to the universe and accept everything life puts in front of you. Trust you can handle whatever life brings. Be confident and strong knowing all things seemingly good or bad work in your favor. 
'Even in the mud and scum of things, something always, always sings.' Ralph Waldo Emerson



Stand Tall 

Yours are Big Shoes to Fill

If the Shoe Fits, Wear it

Wednesday, September 2, 2026

Lightarted Living: The Only Thing that Makes Sense

Lightarted Living: The Only Thing that Makes Sense:  

The Only Thing that Makes Sense

 


The Only Thing That Makes Sense 


"The only thing that makes sense

is to hold it all tenderly— 


as if it can break, as if it won't be here forever,

as if the moment that is this moment 

will give you everything if you let it.


The only thing that makes sense is to celebrate 

the exactness of you, to take your own face 

in your own hands and declare yourself worthy, 

to wrap arms around the orphaned parts 

that didn't fit, didn't follow, refused to march in straight little lines.


The only thing that makes sense 

is to make art that is your art, art that swings, sways, 

tangos its way through every midnight, as if life, this very exact, 

disappearing life, depends on it. To scatter 

kindness-confetti until walls become wings, 

hard melts to soft, not-enough 

becomes a feast of fabulous plenty—

a wild, belly-laughing celebration

where every tender, breakable thing 

is invited, invited to the moment that is this

moment, the moment that will give you everything 

if you let it."

Julia Fehrenbacher


Thanks to my sis-in-law, Lee, for sending me this poem by Julia Fehrenbacher.  I was compelled to share it with you. 

Hold your moments tenderly!

The Only Thing that Makes Sense

 


The Only Thing That Makes Sense 


"The only thing that makes sense

is to hold it all tenderly— 


as if it can break, as if it won't be here forever,

as if the moment that is this moment 

will give you everything if you let it.


The only thing that makes sense is to celebrate 

the exactness of you, to take your own face 

in your own hands and declare yourself worthy, 

to wrap arms around the orphaned parts 

that didn't fit, didn't follow, refused to march in straight little lines.


The only thing that makes sense 

is to make art that is your art, art that swings, sways, 

tangos its way through every midnight, as if life, this very exact, 

disappearing life, depends on it. To scatter 

kindness-confetti until walls become wings, 

hard melts to soft, not-enough 

becomes a feast of fabulous plenty—

a wild, belly-laughing celebration

where every tender, breakable thing 

is invited, invited to the moment that is this

moment, the moment that will give you everything 

if you let it."

Julia Fehrenbacher


Thanks to my sis-in-law, Lee, for sending me this poem by Julia Fehrenbacher.  I was compelled to share it with you. 

Hold your moments tenderly!

Wednesday, August 26, 2026

Lightarted Living: The Grace and Grit to Overcome Hardships

Lightarted Living: The Grace and Grit to Overcome Hardships:   

The Grace and Grit to Overcome Hardships

 



A Heart for Any Fate

"Let us, then, be up and doing,
With a heart for any fate;
Still achieving, still pursuing,
Learn to Labor and to wait."

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow



The Dragonfly~
A Symbol of Courage and Strength

The dragonfly has become one of our symbols of the courage, adaptability and strength needed to overcome hardships.

Perhaps we're so drawn to these attractive and adept creatures because they're such tiny creatures of grace and grit.

We need our symbols like dragonflies to inspire us to keep going--to be 'up and doing--still achieving, still pursuing'--when difficulties arise  to arouse the courage within us to persist and conquer what is put before us. 




Let Us, then, Be Up and Doing

Who among us, when faced with the hardships of life, doesn't desire 'the heart for any fate'--a hardiness of spirit based in our ability to be courageous and adaptable? Who doesn't want to be a person who when faced with difficulties can handle them with grace and grit?

Life has a way of throwing us curve balls that test our endurance for handling life. 

Each time we wonder "do I have what it takes to get through yet another 'difficult life lesson'?" 

We do. We discover what we're made of the moment we begin to face the difficulty head on. 

Even if you don't start with the courage and strength, the current challenge will show you that deep inside you is a well of intestinal fortitude for you to draw on.



Courage Means to Take Heart 
So what is the key to having the courage and strength to overcome yet one more hardship? You step into life and keep on laboring--'learn to labor and to wait.'

We're all afraid when we first come face to face with a major life difficulty. But as Susan Jeffers said so many years ago, the way to deal with the fear is to "feel the fear, and do it anyway." 

Step into action. Face the fear. Fly in the face of fear. Take one step, and then another. Your courage and strength will emerge when you face your fears head on.

Take Heart in Your Struggles

Do you know the origins of the word 'Courage'? First known use was in the 14th century. The word courage  has been traced  back to  corage (Middle English;, curage, quer, and coer  meaning  heart (Anglo-French); and cor (Latin) meaning  more at heart.

Courage Synonyms: great heartedness, guts, gutsiness, hardihood, heart, heroism, intestinal fortitude, moxie, nerve, prowess, stoutness, valor, virtue

Find Great Heartedness within Yourself

Like the tiny dragonfly you have the grace and grit to deal with life head on. Get on with the business of living with confidence and courage. Take a step, and then take another. 

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For more than 40 years, Susan J Meyerott has been helping people lighten up and step over invisible barriers to change one step at a time. She speaks to your heart, puts you at ease, and makes letting go and moving forward with life easier than ever before.

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